Planning a Series of Fortunate Events
05 September 2009 | by jen in Wedding Stuff
I know I’ve talked a lot about “non-planning” a “non-reception” (at least it seems like a lot!) but that’s not to say I’m not absolutely looking forward to celebrating our marriage with our dear ones. I only want to keep stress at bay and although there is a part of me that would love to go over every detail and make things “perfect,” it probably better if I take a more casual approach to things. I even considered not sending out paper invitations but I figured, when would I get an opportunity to do this? And I do love paper goods so…
We are having at least two parties. The first one will be with our friends; it might seem a little disjointed to do it this way but it seems like the most convenient thing for everyone and convenience is a good thing, in my opinion. The festivities are to be held in October; something low key but fun…wine, cheese and plenty of finger foods, a cake (not a fancy wedding cake but perhaps it still will be tiered, just for fun), and even some Halloween-inspired goodies and decoration.
I made these silhouettes based off some wedding photos that had our profiles in them. I like the old-fashioned look and color theme. These scalloped cards are great, aren’t they? I got them at Staples of all places!

I had to make matching address labels, of course. And don’t you love these stamps? They may be my favorite, next to the Edgar Allan Poe ones.
The invitations that I’ll make for the November’s Texas BBQ and Country Western Dancing Reception (!!!) will be similar but perhaps with a few difference like the colors, for example. And then perhaps we’ll have a family gathering around Christmas, like a post-holiday brunch.
I’m really trying to be productive this weekend but I can’t help but feel fried by the heat. Hmm, it doesn’t seem like something I ever tire of complaining about! Well, I think I’m more of a cool weather person anyway. It is supposed to be only in the 80s this weekend so hopefully we’re getting a break from the hot temps.
I hope you all have a magnificent unofficial last days of summer! Any fun plans this weekend?



05 September 2009 | Lisa says:
Lovely silhouettes! Great job with the invites - I have a thing for silhouettes and scalloped edges ;-). As much of a “hassle” as weddings can be, they are also a great excuse to indulge in rare pleasures one couldn’t otherwise justify - like paper invites, fancy cakes, over-the-top get-togethers, etc - milk it for all it’s worth ;-).
05 September 2009 | reilly says:
They look so great! Glad you’re not stressing yourself out.
“Hmm, it doesn’t seem like something I ever tire of complaining about! Well, I think I’m more of a cool weather person anyway.”
You are NOT alone. If I could just write all day about how miserable the heat makes me, I’d be a little happier about suffering.
05 September 2009 | erika says:
I absolutely love them. I have a thing for silhouettes! You did a lovely job!
05 September 2009 | Lavender Dreams says:
You always put so much thought into each and everything! And it turns out beautifully! Wish I lived closer!
06 September 2009 | Andrea says:
Any excuse to send out beautifully thought-out invites and have parties is wonderful.
xo!
06 September 2009 | Kara says:
G, The invites are AMAZING. The silhouettes are amazing, the hand-lettering is amazing, the quote about denim jackets is BEYOND amazing, you are beyond amazing. I’m carrying it around with me so I can show it to everyone I know and gush about your genius. HOORAY! Can’t wait to catch up. I think I’m finally coming up for air, so hopefully soon! Miss you!
06 September 2009 | Elizabeth Mackey says:
All sounds so fun, and relaxed. Love the invites, and those stamps are my favorites! I keep getting them every chance I get. Can’t wait to see some photos of the events.
07 September 2009 | Hollin says:
These are incredible! The scallops and silhouettes together, makes an amazing invitation.
08 September 2009 | elissa says:
absolutely beautiful.
08 September 2009 | Stéphanie says:
Beautiful invitations !
09 September 2009 | Casey says:
How fun! I agree: paper invitations are totally worth it since so many people don’t bother with them any more. That was honestly probably the most fun part of my wedding prep work.
hehe! I just love the use of silhouettes too–way too cute!